Divisions
still remain. Some old. Some renewed.
My speech
was meant as a peace offering from my generation back to theirs. That our generation, the one that grew up in
the shadow of their shaming, was here to try to understand them, that at the least, we wish nothing less for them than their full atonement.
But it was
not our battle. We were not the ones who
turned their back to their struggle. We
could not atone for that. Best we can
offer is to not forsake them now.
To
promise them that we will remember, who they were and what they gave.
Vietnam. We were involved there before Korea. And still, we weren’t ready.
While they
were chasing ghosts in the jungle, our country was tearing itself apart.
Sitting down
at the 49th Annual Viet Nam Last Man’s Club dinner last night I was
struck by how things change and how they stay the same.
Obviously
these men that served fifty years ago have changed (aged) a good deal. But what was plainly abundant was their
commitment to the country they served and especially their commitment to each
other.
I had the
pleasure of sitting with VNLMC President Dale Nansteel and Sgt.-At-Arms
Mitchell Nace and his wife Linda. Also joining
us was former Lehighton teacher and Kutztown University professor Dr. Dale
Titus.
Titus was a
navy veteran who served in Viet Nam from 1967 to 1968. He shared several keen
observations, including how welcomed he felt in the streets
of South Vietnam upon a return visit there.
Dr. Dale Titus, served in the navy in Vietnam and former Lehighton area teacher and professor emeritus at Kutztown University. |
He found citizens
of his era walking up to him thanking him for his service and how they too
fought on the side of the South.
Which brings
me to the point of my message that evening: To measure what we have lost and
what we have gained and to gather a sense of atonement from it all.
(This remainder of this article is both a paraphrase of my words as well as a record of this 49th banquet.
The pictures of this post were presented to those in attendance via a PowerPoint presentation. My attempt to bridge my understanding of them to their service.)
I can only
imagine that it hasn’t been easy for you.
Conflict was
a euphemism for the war.
Specifically,
what your generation has lost and what it has given could easily be overlooked.
Recently, the Legion sold the Franz Kline mural 'Lehighton.' This has been a cause that has divided opinion among some. And Franz Kline too, in his short life, experience conflict as well.
Your
generation and Kline both share a common distinction: you both suffered through
loss and conflict.
But we cannot go back. We should try not to live in regret. It is easy to allow nostalgia linger and feed those feelings.
The Lehighton Legion Menu from the early 1950s. |
The seafood platter served at the 49th annual club dinner was nearly identical to the platter routinely served at the Legion in the 1950s. |
But it is
also where the roots of your generation’s war were, the beginnings of Vietnam.
The
Vietnam ‘Conflict.’ We all know those who were in the thick of it
knew it as war,
And you
gathered here know more than most, how war certainly is hell.
Bill Kirkendall was a B-52 tail-gunner with 50 missions over Europe. Sons like David grew up in the shadow of their fahters' glories of WWII. For them, Vietnam was a bitter pill to swallow. |
To add
insult to injury, you couldn’t even talk about it.
Fellow
veterans didn’t even dare mention their prior service to strangers, and in some
cases, those strangers were veterans themselves, afraid to mention the war to
new acquaintances.
Your father’s fought a glorious war, you hung around in the shadows of their popular service.
Gene Semanoff - Served in the Air Force during Vietnam. |
Gene's father, Joe Semanoff served in the 101st Airborne in Europe. |
You
have gathered here to honor the memory of those fallen from us and to celebrate
those who are still here.
All of
us are the sum of all our parts. And
sometimes we can realize how we can be greater than the sum of our parts. This is true for this group. This is true for you as an individual. All of you have been molded by the Vietnam
era.
You are
gallant.
You are
gentle men and you are gentle ladies.
Glenn "Smokey" Troutman from his Lehighton yearbook along with fellow Vietnam veteran classmate Gary Vanage. Gary's name was added to the list of the dead honored at each year's banquet in 2005. |
You are
heroes.
You have
served us well, and we the community of Lehighton are better for having fine
men and women like you who she can call her sons and her daughters.
As a
historian and fellow son of Lehighton, a son of a Korean War soldier, I want
you to know, how grateful I am to you. I
am proud to have grown up under the shadow of your great and self-less serving
and sacrifice.
I hope you will accept my deepest gratitude.
Near the end
of our conversation, Dr. Titus made one last observation.
Our modern
fleet ships are built differently: Gone
are the side-decks, staffing is down, and with everything so dependent on sonar, control is made from a windowless room. He believed these were the conditions that have lead to the current
spate of collisions.
In other words, the new navy
is so stealthy that command and control is left with a limited view.
Perhaps that
is where atonement can begin, in seeing the whole picture.
It was
suggested by Titus to find a Vietnamese refugee that found a new home here in
America to speak at next year's banquet.
Surely these
veterans could find some solace in hearing a survivor's story, someone who has benefited from their toil and sacrifice.
After the
toast to the dead with the red wine and the toast to the living with the white,
names of VNLMC members who died in the previous year were named: Al Buchignani,
Stewart Alboucq, Robert Emmert, and Gary Neifert.
VNLMC Chaplain Sue Snyder offered both the opening and closing prayer. And Sec/Treas David Bryfolge wished for prayers to all in attendance that they will once again be with them in 2018.
~~~~~
End Notes:
The following names are recorded by the club as those who were killed in action and those members who have since died of other causes.
The former high school/junior high in Lehighton was recently named
after Pfc Clyde Houser who was lived just down the streeton South St before moving to Held St on Union Hill. |
KIA: Ronald S.H. Christman (Not to be confused with the Ronald Christman pictured earlier.)
Clyde R. Houser Jr.
Leon D. Eckhart
Charles R. Jones
Merlin Hollenbach
Newly married, arrived in Vietnam on his 21st birthday. He died 3 days before Christmas, 1968. |
Subsequent Deaths:
Charles Ahner, Douglas Beck, Henry Beck, William Beck, Douglas Beers, Robert Beers, Wilmer Berger, Donna Blauch, Kenneth Bretz, Ronald Christman, William Crowley, Bert David, Richard Dean, Warren Dresher, Ernest Eidem, Dennis Exner, Dean Gilbert, William Graver, Kermit Heiland, Robert Q. Koch, Robert Horvath, Raymond Heiland, David Kirkendall, Edward Korastinsky, Robert Lewis, Albert Lichenwalter, David Mertz, Harold Long, Harr D. Miller, Walter S. Metzger, Charles Moser, Robert G. Mowery, Donald Niehoff, Donald Reichard, Richard J. Richter, Carl Schoenberger, Joe J. Slanina, Terry Snyder, Kenneth Snyder, Gary G. Solt, Philip I. Stiegerwalt, Dennis Sullivan, Gary Vanage, Lee F. Wentz, Neal E. Yehl, Jim Young, Charles Yenser, Edward Zellner, Thomas V. Smith, Fred Young, William M. Graver Sr., Robert Yanero, Charles Solt III, Warren E. Long Sr., Ronald E. Taschler, Donald E. Ziegenfus, Dennis Sander, Thomas A. Meehan, Leroy A. Hefflefinger, Thomas C. Geshel, John S. Kobal, Thomas A. Polk, William C. Newton Jr., Leonard K. Zellner, John Kriel, Paul Hancharik, James Holland, Larry E. Smith, Robert C. Stien, Robert G. Moser, Warren R. Remaley, Dennis C. Dotter, Roger L. Kocher, Conrad A. Stahre, Martin L. Rex, George N. Kraftician, Dana Beisel, Richard Beltz, Lamont Hunsicker, Carl Everett.
From the 1971 Lehighton yearbook. Holland was a member of the Lehighton Fire Company, served on the school board, and a member of the VNLMC. |
Within the past year:
Al Buchignani, Stewart A. Alboucq, Robert N. Emmert, and Gary Neifert.
Major Laurence J. Law was married to cousin Patsy Stegura Law (her mother was my father's sister). He volunteered for Vietnam and received the Silver Star, the military's third highest honor. |
My cousin Patricia Stegura Law of Nanticoke's husband. |
The Morning Call - February 1966 |